My boyfriend is a bit bored and frustrated about pleasing me because I don’t give enough auditory feedback about what feels good to me. He says I usually say “that feels good” which is the few times he can tell something feels pleasurable to me, otherwise he doesn’t know because my moans don’t really correspond to anything he is doing.

On the other hand, it is very easy for me to tell when I am making him feel even better because he makes specific sounds, and that gets me excited and motivated. He does not get that experience with me.

I will note that orgasms during sex for me are nearly impossible, and despite masturbating less than I used to, I struggle more with achieving orgasm by myself. My body just is not as sensitive all around as everyone else’s, it seems, so I don’t react as dramatically. Except for anal, then I do a lot of screaming lol.

I definitely learned to play up the moaning already, so is the art of making specific moans just something that us less sensitive folks need to hone? Enthusiasm is a big, big turn on for me, so I am willing to fake it a little if that means he will be turned on more.