Ok so in my (25F) journey of horniness I have reached a point where I said fuck it, dating apps suck and are not working, I will just post on r4r and then filter through all the messages I got. Do you guys think this is crazy or it can be done in a safe way? I really want to get laid (it has been a whiiiiile) and sleep with someone nice and have a good experience. My only worry is that men from reddit, on that subreddit specifically, potentially being creeps or not very nice people. I think that is my biggest fear, to get in bed with someone and they treat me badly or are not respectful or something. Ideally, I would be vetting them before it reaches that point but on that note does anyone have any tips for vetting? Like how can I actually tell that a guy will be respectful and caring in bed. I think part of it I can figure out with my intuition but lmk if you have any concrete tips? Or do you think it’s a bad idea in general to sleep with men from Reddit and I should just do another tour of the good ole dating apps?