Hi! Almost two moths ago my partner bit me downstairs and hurt my lips and the inside of my vag. I had a urinary infection and after that a yeast infection. Recently he told me that he's having an infection in one tooth because he hasn't been to the dentist since 2017. It turns out, he did a tomography and he probably has been living with this infection for some time now. Yesterday, I was talking to him in a restaurant about his hygiene, he's been using the same socks for 3 days and uses the same underwear for 2 days too (he showers every day but puts on the same dirty clothes). Once we were outside he told me that he was upset because I talked about his hygiene habits in a public place and that people were surely listening and that any other person would have left me there (like, get up and leave) and that AT LEAST he loved me. I told him I was sorry, but there were 5 people at the restaurant, we were in one corner and I thought nobody was listening, that I was sorry I have upseted him but I needed to tell him what I think about it. He told me 'Your boyfriend is like that', so it makes me think he's not going to change anything about his lack of hygiene. When we were dating he talked about the time he had a threesome in a restaurant, so I don't fully understand the problem. On the other hand, he doesn't know if he has HPV, he went to 4 different doctors, 2 of them told him they weren't sure but that a specialist could make him a test, 1 told him he could take a test right there (but was expensive and probably painful) and the last one told him, it probably wasn't anything (he has 1 wart on his ball sack and many warts on his neck/face). I have taken 3 different tests and everything was negative (thank God), but the doctors told me that the virus might be in a window period because it was very recent. I told him we are not going to have sex until he takes 1 test or I get the vaccine (which takes 6 months), I've been stressing out and suffering for the last two months. The day before yesterday he told me he's not going to take any test (since the last doctor told him it probably wasn't anything) and a week ago that he needed to fuck. I told him I didn't have the patience or the energy to deal with the topic at the moment and that if he doesn't want to take a test or wait for me to vaccine, this is not going to work out. He said he has no hurry and that I was hurting his feelings. I apologised and told him I was sick of the topic. The thing is, I'm demisexual and I used to feel indifference about sex, but now I feel rejection. I don't know what to do guys. Two weeks ago we were talking on the phone about the HPV issue and he told me "At the worst case scenario, you can remove your uterus, you didn't want to have children anyways". I was so shocked I couldn't say anything.