Hi all! Just curious what others' thoughts are on this. I tagged advice but I'm not sure it really fits.

I've been "slutting it up" quite a bit and noticed that some guys really get me going. I fantasize about them, I want to sext them and get really excited just thinking about doing new things with them in bed. Other guys, not so much. We have fun but I'm content to just chat about other things and share memes, or just not communicate with them again until we make plans to hang out. The other guys tend to be the ones who I see on a consistent basis, while the ones I fantasize about are more sporadic, to be generous lol.

Is it an indication of different levels of sexual attraction, or just a factor of a hot flash in the pan vs something more familiar and comfortable? Does it mean anything?