Okay, so this is new to me. Forgive me if this comes off as naive. I've only had three sexual partners prior to my boyfriend, and only one of them was more than once.

So my boyfriend is much bigger than I'm used to. We've had sex plenty of times. The first handful of times were really uncomfortable, but eventually I got my sea legs and it became much more pleasurable.

He's been away for two months and when we had sex it hurt. It seemed worse than the first time. Like I'm glad my roommate wasn't there because I made way to much noise. That sounds stupid I know, but it's the only way I can describe it.

Is it normal for me to get tighter? I assume so, but does anyone else have this relevant experience? Will it ease up again?