Tonight during a Quaker LGBT Friends and allies Meeting one of the women said "of course not all men" because one man was in the Meeting.

I'm so very over it.

If you as a man feel the need to say BUT NOT ALL MEN

Then if you aren't correcting men all the time you are very much a part of the problem.

What did the one man in the group say when I suggested a woman only meeting so we could speak freely without feeling like we needed to say "but not all men?" "men need to hear what women have to say so they can learn"

Clearly dude you didn't hear nor learn!

Just stop already. If this triggers you to want to say "but not all men" please look into yourself and figure out why you feel like you need to say this!

I raised my kids (mostly men) to show respect to those that show them respect. To know that their strength isn't for harming those weaker than they are. To know that they should stand up and protect those that need protection. They champion human rights. Get mad at men who think they can decide what we do with our bodies. But. They mansplain stuff to me. I'm just safe enough with them that I can laugh and ask them why they're doing it.

Most women cannot do this and that men is the frigging point change what your going to say not all men to most women because it's truer this way.

Instead of arguing or demanding the wrong rhetoric champion us! "hey Bill don't talk like that to her!"

Thank you.