I was diagnosed with adenocarcinoma in situ today at a LEEP post op appointment. It wasn't detected on my pap and the doctors were as surprised as to find it as I was to be told about it.

I've more or less been given the options of possibly endless surgeries on my cervix or a hysterectomy. I'm 28 and have no children.

Called mom, she told me to talk to my therapist and "pray to her god for healing" (I am not a Christian and she is very aware of this).

Didn't want to call my grandma, she's spent the last twenty years battling different cancers and if she cried, I'd cry and I wasn't ready to let it out.

So I called dad.

After a couple "that's terrible"s and "I'm so sorry"s he says "well, ya know sometimes girls have a certain kind of fun and they get sick because of it".

Fuck. You. Asshole.

I have cancer and you're going to slut-shame me? Awesome.

Really more of a vent than a rant but seriously fuck you.