Hello, I'm 14 years old and biologically female. But I do not identify as a female or a male. I simply don't know. Lately I've been identifying as non-binary. But it's getting very hard to explain. My mother is not very understanding right now, but I know she wants to be. I don't really know myself right now but I know that being labeled as a female and referred to as a female makes me feel extremely uncomfortable.

I was looking at my breasts in the mirror this morning and I didn't like it. I've never truly liked them being there, I've always felt like they don't belong. I was considering asking my mother for a chest binder but I'll be honest- I'm nervous. She's the only person besides a handful of my friends who knows I'm genderqueer and she's not very accustomed to new terms and orientations. I don't like my name anymore because it fit my old personality. I was a cisgendered female who didn't question her sexuality or gender... But now I feel different. I'm into females and males. I don't fit into any specific parameters for either gender besides the fact I have a vagina. But that's not my gender, that's my sex. I guess what I'm trying to say here is I have ALOT of questions and just need a bit of help sorting things out. Feel free to ask for more clarification.