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I gag/throw up if semen is inside me in any way, is there a way to fix this?
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So this is a weird thing to post about. Iā€™ve had this ā€œthingā€ for as long as Iā€™ve been sexually active (11 years) if a man (any man) cums inside of me I begin to gag and throw up. Iā€™m not just talking orally but both orally and vaginally. Itā€™s ok if a man cums on my body or in a condom as long is itā€™s not inside of me.

Iā€™m straight, Iā€™m physically attracted to men and Iā€™m not attracted to women. I enjoy sex a lot but I canā€™t help throwing up. I feel like thereā€™s something wrong with me. Is this normal? The feel, the smell and the thought of it are so off putting. Iā€™ve tried googling to no avail except for some OCD thing but it doesnā€™t match what I experience.

I havenā€™t really brought this up with any monogamous partners where the issue arises. I tend to immediately go to the bathroom and take care of it.

Is there a way to fix this? Sex therapy?

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Thatā€™s possible, is there a way to test for that?

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No I donā€™t have anything like that. It must just be psychological

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Yeah I think thatā€™s fair. I know I want to have another child in the next year or 2. I may need to look into exposure therapy. Thank you so much! Iā€™ll definitely use condoms for now.

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Itā€™s like this with any long term partner Iā€™ve had

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Well yes, thatā€™s a solid option. It doesnā€™t fix the issue though.

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It does help knowing Iā€™m not the only one

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I can feel it, thereā€™s no hiding it

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I guess Iā€™ll need to look into a second therapist that specializes in that. Thank you!

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I can try it and see if that does anything

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I donā€™t think it works like that

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