With the recent news of the Gisele case from France and another similar incident I just heard about also using chemical submission that happened in Singapore a few years ago so that men could let other men rape their wives... I'm seriously wondering if I can ever trust a man to hand me a drink when I didn't watch him pour it.

It's terrifying. And while logically I understand that not every man will do this, it's enough and there's so many instances of it happening with husbands, boyfriends, fathers etc. All the men we trust the most (obviously I knew already that most instances of SA happen by someone you know but still...)

I feel like this has unlocked a new fear in me. I live with a male roommate and while I like to believe he would never be that guy I still feel like I will want to always watch my drinks being made from now on.

Anyone else feel this way?