OK hear me out please. I (33F) have been in love only twice for real. Three times if we were being very detailed but in hindsight one of the instances was more infatuation than real, true, raw love.

So folks here who have been in love say 6-7 times until their 30s, or say 10-15 times by the time they hit 40, and more times once you got into 50s, what was your game plan?

Did you just meet a looooot of people which is why it was easier to find love? Did you just get lucky and only met those perfect people you fell in love with? Or do you just generally have a lot of love to offer to people regardless or not the other person was a compatible long term partner?

I ask because I honestly am jealous of y’all…. I wish I could fall in love that easily. I kinda miss being in love and experiencing it back both. Wondering if I am doing something wrong. Lol