Met a seemingly great guy after a rough time in my life. He’s very sweet and has given me no reason to think he’s anything other than sweet. But when we hang out I find that half the time I’m just anxious because “what if he’s lying?”, “what if he’s just using me?” “What if he’s secretly a player?”. When I can actually calm down, I have a really great time with him.

I know the answer is therapy and don’t worry I have that in the works. But also I’m just so annoyed that because my last two relationships were full of deceit, I’m finding it almost impossible to let go and have fun because I’m too paranoid about if this guy has ulterior motives.

Can anybody relate?