I’m a vlrgin and every single guy that knows it except of my gay best friend was repulsed by it. I’m not someone who was dating in my teens. I don’t fall in love very often, I can count it on my fingers and I couldn’t get physical with someone without having romantic feelings. I’m probably somewhere on the asexual spectrum so that’s being said. I had my first and last boyfriend at the age of 21 (I’m 29 now) and he was quite experienced for his age. He acted like he wouldn’t mind me being a vlrgin, but he was very hesitant and didn’t even initiate it. It was a crazy on-off thing so it didn’t last. Men say they want a vlrgin, but when they get a vlrgin they don’t want a vlrgin anymore. I’ve met two more men that I had feelings for and both were repulsed when I told them that I’m a vlrgin. What I’ve heard from the first one „you’re a vlrgin? So that’s why your former boyfriend left you“. He knew that my former boyfriend was an abusive narcissist, but as soon as I told him I’m a vlrgin it was all my fault that he left me. Which is not true btw. He was a POS, but that wasn’t even the reason. It wasn’t even that I didn’t want to have sex with him. It just never happened. The second one told me that I’m not desirable, because I seem like I wouldn’t let any man touch me. So that was my story with men and me being a vlrgin. I don’t tell it many men, because we probably all heard men making fun of women like „lol she acts like a prude vlrgin“ or something like that and I’m not willing to be someone who they make fun of. I was also already called a f3mcel, but luckily only online. Anyway the vlrgin shaming is very strong too. I just sometimes ask myself what do men want? They don’t want a vlrgin, but they also don’t want women that already had s3x. You really can’t do anything right as a woman