Edit: found it. the reason I couldn't find it was because it was not a book but some kind of project called invisible men. It documents what men say about prostitutes. Here is the link for anybody interested: https://prostitutionresearch.com/the-invisible-men-project/

However, all the books recommended.are very appreciated. If you see this post and have a book to recommend I will put it on my list. This is in order to better argue my position against sex work not in order to criminalize women but because I don't think all feminists understand how horrifying legalizing the process helps men rationalize and objectify women more..

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Hello friends,

I skimmed a book a few months back written by an anti prostitution anti porn feminist who basically compiled interiews of men who went to sex workers and what they thought of the women. It was absolutely horrifying. I saved it somewhere but have lost it and cannot figure out the title or author. Does this book ring any bells? It is a fairly recent book, maybe last 10 years, but im happy for any other book recs as well.

I want to read it now that I'm in a context of more stability.

Thank you in advance for any help..

Also not sure if it requires post flair sorry