I (f20) have been dating (m25) for 7 months now and I’ve learned that he tends to do something that makes no sense whatsoever and honestly upsets me. But am I an asshole for getting upset about it? Currently I do not have my license and I live 30 minutes away from my partner no biggie. Whenever we see each other I have to spend the night and sometimes I can’t due to next day plans. Whenever I tell him I have plans the next day he changes everything up on me and is like oh I’ll just see you another day and isn’t even remotely willing to see me. He makes excuses like oh I have laundry to do which he does have to do yet he went out the other day with friends when he could have gotten it done. He prioritizes things over me sometimes whenever I say hey I can’t do that because I just can’t. It hurts me that he isn’t willing to spend quality time with me unless it’s me spending the night and if it’s on his time. It seems he doesn’t want to legitimately go out of his way for me sometimes and it upsets me. I know it’s a little thing but it really upsets me