Heyyy i feel so alone in this and maybe I am over reacting but this is the situation. Me, my bf and a lot of our friends were out for dinner. The friend who was driving had four glasses of wine; aproxemately around 0,5 liters in total. I thought someone else was going to drive instead of him because he had the most alcohol, but when we were going to the car, he jumped in the front seat to drive. I talked to my boyfriend outside of the car and told him that I was not going with and that it was totally fine for me to walk because it was only about 2-3km (around 2 miles). He got really upset and said that his friend wouldn't drive if he didn't feel like it. I stood my ground and walked. My boyfriend came after and we had a little bit of a discussion. He thinks that his friend is old enough to know his limit while I, on the other hand, wouldn't trust anyone with 3-4 glasses of wine in their system, no matter who it is. Info: We have different cultures. I am norwegian (very strict with rules ald laws) and they are South european. I studied science and I know how the reaction time changes with alcohol even though you don't feel it yourself. I also have a history of parents that have been very irresponsable with alcohol even as parents. I am 20 years old and my bf and our friends are like 30-35 so that might affect the situation. My bf is still upset with me, but I am just proud that I dared to do what I felt was right - not support that stuff. Help?