I (27f) , well I guess I’m at that age where everyone starts looking to you for kids. Personally I’d rather slide butt naked, down a slide made of razor blades, into a pool of rubbing alcohol than change a shitty diaper. I mean so much so I’ve actively only dated infertile men in between bouts of celibacy since 21ish. I know the life I want and kids don’t fit , on to my issue.

Every single time I see my mom she mentions grandkids, I jokingly tell her she has plenty (my pet rabbit and chiwennie ( Chihuahua wiener dog mix) and move on with the conversation. Well my best friend just had a baby and naturally I told mom, cue a 20 minute tirade about how much she “wants to be a grandma” and “has picked out what she wants to be called”. She tells me how much she loves seeing all of her friends being grandmas, and how she can’t wait to have grand babies. She convinced that I won’t understand how fulfilling being a mother is until it’s “my turn” , I’d rather take a turn on a Spanish donkey.

I’m very firmly set in not wanting to have children ,what can I possibly say to make her understand.