My husband (29) and I (32) have been married for 8 years now. We have 4 boys ages 4 and under so our life is extremely busy. I am a stay at home mom who babysits other children for money, is in school full time. My husband works 7-1 Monday-Friday and does nothing to help around the house and spends little to no time with our boys. I take care of our boys, the house and everything in between while in school so my down time is little to none. Well last year my husband completely forgot my birthday and I had to tell him at 3pm he forgot my birthday and I got a pity dinner that was crap because the kids were just screaming the whole time while he sat there and enjoyed his meal and left me to the meas. Well today is my birthday and all I asked for was a break. I didn't even want to go out to dinner because then I knew it was gonna just be me trying to keep them chill and quiet while out. So instead I asked for a break and to order in dinner so I had literally nothing to do. Well he gets off work, comes home and just goes to sleep. Left me to deal with the kids, on top of I still had to do our budget just to see if we could afford dinner to grab food. I ended up just making the boys dinner and that's it. So he then calls me petty and a child because I didn't make him food. Inalso refuse to talk to him and im done giving in to talking it out because he is never wrong. Our marriage is already shitty with infidelity, he belittles me and the way he treats me is honestly terrible, but I'm trying to at least stick it out until I have a degree and can support my boys but I don't know how much longer I can take anymore being treated this way. But AITA for making this being the last straw?