Advice needed - my husband got home from work, I made mention we should have a shower and I assumed he was keen since he didn’t say no. He didn’t tell me he was going to the shower, after five minutes or so I opened the door and saw him standing there in the shower with his phone. He looked shocked and said “ugh I was just about to text you to come in”. My stomach dropped and I instantly thought he looked suspicious and left the room. The nether region was partially “ready” to rock and roll, not fully but definitely not cold if you get what I’m saying.

He ends the shower and comes out and says “you can look in my phone”. Our conversation went back and forth my points being if he was texting me to come in why did he look so shocked I did? Why didn’t he tell me to come into the shower when he went? Why didn’t he just yell out to come in?

He began raising his voice saying he’s sick of us arguments like this but we’ve never had arguments like this before. He did agree it looked shady but then would go back to looking guilty by getting angry and saying he is sick of me making these assumptions.

My gut is telling me there’s something more to it, but my brain is saying he’s married to you and never Been disloyal before. He never takes his phone around the house with him, but decided to take it to the shower? But has also left it right in front of me to look at if i choose. I’m a very emotionally charged person and sometimes this clouds my judgement.

This is minor compared to some things I see on here but I don’t really have anyone who can give me unbiased advice, thank you.