Let's start from the beginning sorry for the long post. I (42m) have been out of a relationship for about a year. Not really wanting to date after my most recent breakup. Then I meant my now gf (37f) about 6 months ago. We hit it off right away we want the same thing we have a blast together. I spend alot of time at her house with the two kids. She says I bring her peace and she does the same for me. But she is super guarded she was hurt bad from her ex husband. To be fair I was hurt from my previous marriage also. I have feelings for her but I'm not sure what they are. But it's hard to get a read on her. She said that she cares for me and if she didn't I would not be there with her and her kids. When she gets to the I love you stage she wants to be 100 percent sure. I'm everything she is looking for I have a good job. I'm caring her kids love me. I think that we will get there but all I can do is reassure her and be there. I know that she will never love me like her ex husband I get that. But I'm afraid I'm going to start loosing interest and get frustrated. I'm honestly not sure what to do.