As I said, I packed my ex boyfriends things, and we do plan to meet at a public place so I can give him his things as well as talk. I know some of you said not to talk but due to what I'm about to tell you. I need to talk to him to get answers because Kate is officially crazy in my book, and a few other people now witnessed the crazy.

Now, onto the update. I was told by the girls that Kate was at the club practicing, so I took it upon myself to let them know I'm going to head over to talk. I told them I would only talk to her in the parking lot, more public space and cameras. I also texted one of the security men who worked at the club to be outside in the parking lot so he could be a witness to me having a calm conversation in case things went left. Omg did they go so left!

I get there, and I'm assuming the security or the girls told Kate I wanted to talk that was it because I had some questions, but whoever talked to her didn't specify what those questions were. Now, I want you all to understand what I look like. I'm 4'11, I'm a small girl compared to most especially Kate. I'm hispanic, with black hair and brown eyes. She is white, with blonde hair and hazel/blue eyes, and she stands at 5'3. We both made eye contact with each other. I waved my hand, smiled on my face, and say "Hi" loud enough for her to hear me. She just stopped and stood there, I obviously had a look of confusion because when I looked at security, he tilted his head as in a "wtf" moment.

This freaking girl went nuts, she started crying, screaming, yelling, "Get her away from me!", "I don't want her near me, get that B*tch out of here!" She acted like I attacked her or something. Mind you, I wasn't even 4 feet in front of her yet. She is still bawling, acting so scared of me for no reason. I've never laid my hands on this girl, I don't know her from anywhere, and I never even yelled at her. The girls from the inside came to the outside asking wtf happened, Kate is on the ground shaking, pointing at me?

The security told them I didn't even get close to her , and she just started screaming. The manager came out and took her inside to her office. The girls are asking me exactly what happened. The security is confused and tells them what happened, which matches my story. They tell me she was again perfectly fine inside talking, laughing nothing was wrong with her. I just decided to take off at this point because there isn't anything for me to do. There are cameras that captured the incident, so the manager can look for herself that Kate is a freaking weirdo.

I messaged my ex and told him what happened along with telling him we needed to meet so he could tell me the truth and the complete truth about what happened or what happened between him & Kate. I also told him I packed his things, he would get everything, and we could meet in a public space. He agreed to those terms.

UPDATE: I talked to my ex. He immediately tried to give me a hug. I put my hand out to stop him. I handed him his bags of stuff on the ground and told him I'd like answers now, and if he was going to lie or even try to gaslight me again, I would leave. He sat down and said he was incredibly sorry for all of this going too far. I asked him to please elaborate on that because from what it looks like, it seems he's been cheating on me with her, and she's jealous because she wants to be with him. He shut that down and said he never cheated, I said, "Prove it, do you have anything that shows you didn't do anything with her?" He then gave me his phone and an old phone he has.

Y'all Kate is a psycho ex who followed him here, stalked him, and that's how she came across me. The old phone was from Highschool, it had a whole bunch of messages, pictures, and screenshots of their relationship, which only lasted 1 year and 3 months because she got too jealous. He then blocked her everywhere, they didn't speak for years until about November he said that's when his brother told him Kate asked about him and his own brother gave her information even though he specifically asked his siblings not to give her anything about him. She traveled from San Diego to "The Valley" to "win him back." He said the reason he was hiding his phone more was due to her texting him, asking about his whereabouts. He never responded, but she followed him one day by seeing him out, and that led her to me. Which then led her to where I work.

I KNOW THIS IS FREAKING CRAZY & I WISH IT WASN'T TRUE, but I saw everything, timestamps, dates, and times stuff that can't be faked. He even brought printouts of his phone bill to show the number of times she called over & over again. When I tell you I actually started crying not because the man I really liked lied to be but because the person I cared for deeply put me in harms way in the worst possible situation with a girl who has been so physically close to me on some nights. The fact that you allowed someone who you knew was possibly dangerous so close to me and said nothing, no anything is absolutely disgusting. I legit cried in my car for 32 minutes.

I called into work, and I sent the recording to my manager and told her if Kate stays, I'm done, and I will move out of the city. The girls at the club know already, and it's to my knowledge that Kate was fired. Idk if I'll update after this because I just feel so drained and just completely beaten down. I honestly feel like cheating would have been better than this, I'd rather him have cheated with the weirdo than this. I didn't deserve to be put into this position. I really didn't. I'm in my last semester of college, I just took finals, and I'm not supposed to be in this mess. ALSO TO BE CLEAR, HIM & I ARE DONE. I WILL NOT BE GETTING BACK TOGETHER WITH HIM