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AITA for kicking my boyfriend out of my apartment?
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So if you seen my post history there is a new girl named Kate at my work. She has been super weird by staring from afar, trying to come into the VIP rooms to see me give private dances. Our manager has talked to her about this twice and how she needed to stop because it will cause issues. The other girls at the club also know about the situation because I told them and in turn they have let me know a few things which have made me believe Kate is either obsessed or like me.

Recently after hearing that Kate wanted to know exactly where I went to shop, eat, or go. I've kept my distance, but I never mentioned anything to my boyfriend because we don't really talk much(that's a whole other situation) or so I thought until I left to go take a final for college, when coming back to my place I saw my boyfriend yelling at Kate. They were down the street from my apartment building, I took a picture and waited till they went different ways. He went to my apartment, I followed and when I got inside I immediately asked him wtf that was about.

He tried to play dumb first, I told him I saw what happened. He then tried to gaslight me, telling me I didn't see anything, I'm crazy, I'm trying to create an issue. So I showed him the picture, I'm not nuts I saw wtf I saw and if you don't want to be truthful gtfo. Simple nothing else to say.

He still stood on that he didn't know what i was talking about so he left. About 45 minutes later he texted me saying if we could talk, I texted back saying are you going to be truthful because if not I'll just put your shit outside.

My questions to him will be, how tf do you know Kate? What was said? Why did you try to lie?

UPDATE: I don't have work tonight so I'll be packing my ex boyfriend stuff and have it outside for him to get. I don't want to talk to him anytime soon. But I will be speaking to Kate tomorrow before our shift to see what is going on. I honestly don't know what will be said or not. I'm just hoping to get all this behind me. Thank you all for the kind and encouraging words. I will continue to update. I'm not sure of Kate is dangerous but I will always have my protection.

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