Let's get things clear. Do women find it OK for men to use their social media pictures to mastrubate? Do women think it's OK that male friends or neighbours use their pictures to mastrubate? Or is it creepy? Would you feel violated if you were told someone used a picture of you for mastrubation or is it just me?

So I (F34) read a story about a girl asking if she was the AH for calling her boyfriend a disgusting pig for telling her that her male friends were using her selfies on social media for mastrubation. That all guys do it if they find a girl attractive even friends. Then I fell down the rabbit hole in the comments. And yes there are plenty of men how do this. And it isn't creepy, just normal behaviour. Girls who post pictures online consent in their pictures to be used in anyway someone please. "A sexy picture provoke sext thoughts." By sexy picture they mean any picture of a girl.

I find this disturbing and disgusting. I compair it to window peeping. I do have a history of sexual assault so my point of view is contaminated by that. I would feel violated if I found out that someone done it to my picture. I believe that my body is not for anyones pleasure if I haven't given my consent. Even if someone use their imagination. The thought of someone, maybe someone I know, pleasure himself wishing I was there makes me sick.

Now I want to know. What do other females think about this? Do you think it's OK for anyone, even people you know, to use your pictures while touching themselves? Would you feel violated and find it creepy? Or I'm I sensitive and overreacting?

Ps. I'm not changing my feelings. I feel like I do for a reason and no one are going to tell me that's OK or my fault. I'm very confident in my beliefs and feel strongly it's wrong. I just want other perspectives any maybe tell men once and for all how we feel about this "normal" behaviour