I would be open to a threesome under the right conditions but its not something I’m actively searching for or in need of. If anything its purely based off curiosity and the fact that I’m a overly sensual person. After discussing with my partner, we have both realized that a threesome would not be ideal with her being too emotionally invested and would create a feeling of betrayal or jealousy. So in respect of that, we have created “boundaries”. We still however, are exploring and this sometimes includes other couples. Please see below for key things to consider when having a threesome.

“Things to considerations prior to having a threesome”.

1. First, think about why you want to have a threesome. •Its not generally recommend for people to have threesomes in committed relationships. •If the threesome idea was sparked by boredom in the bedroom, bringing a new person into the mix disincentives you from putting energy and creativity into your own sex life. •Sometimes, jealousy issues arise and emotional bonds form as a result of what was supposed to be "meaningless" sex.

2. When choosing a partner.. •When it comes to picking a third, many couples gravitate to someone they know. This is a huge mistake. Inviting someone into the bedroom who one or both of you already have an emotional bond with makes it more likely that someone will have feelings or someone will get their feelings hurt.

3. Safety first First up: Birth control. You should talk about birth control with your partner and your guest star before the big event. Make sure that if your boyfriend is wearing a condom he does not double-dip. Check that everyone involved has a clean bill of health and establish in advance with your partner whether there will be any exchanging of bodily fluids. Limiting drugs and alcohol prevent things from getting out of control and makes it easier for everyone to keep their agreements.

4. Make a sex act checklist. •Some couples make a no-penetration rule. Others embrace a watch-but-don't-touch philosophy. For other couples, it's about limiting intimacy during the threesome experience and focusing solely on sex, aka no kissing or cuddling. •Physical rules should be established upfront in order for this to be an emotionally safe experience.

5. State your fears. •You both must be skilled in talking about delicate topics, and be willing to share any concerns or fears in advance. Find out what your boyfriend's expectations of the event are and share yours. If during this conversation you discover that one of you isn't fully on board or enthusiastic about the idea, it's best not to move forward. A threesome should never be about doing something solely for your partner's pleasure or 'taking one for the team'.

6. Pick a safety word. •The moment one person becomes uncomfortable, they should have the right to end the threesome, no questions asked.

7. Establish relationship boundaries. •It's also important to be clear on whether or not this is a one-time thing or if either of you is hoping to have this be a regular activity and, if so, with the same person every time. Stay true to these commitments. All too often people get slippery about the agreements they make, develop bonds with the non-primary partner, become jealous, or hurt each other's feelings.

Citation: https://www.instyle.com/lifestyle/rules-every-couple-should-set-before-having-threesome