FIRST TIME AT A LIFESTYLE PARTY? Almost every party we have some first-timers, so, regardless of how far you will feel like going, we do our best to create a comfortable environment where no one would feel out of place. There is no pressure to do anything, it's all up to you what you feel like doing, and as our guests vary in experience and all other respects we have couples that just watch, couples that play by themselves, couples that play with other couples, groups of couples gathering together... You never know what exactly will happen at any particular party, it's always spontaneous :). So far, we've had great feedback from first-timers, so it's probably a good place to start your exploration of this lifestyle :)

WHEN TO ARRIVE Guests arrive from 10pm until maybe around 1-1.30am, one-two couples at a time, There is quite a bit of socializing and dancing from around 10pm until around 12-12:30am, Around midnight or some couples start going to the play areas, around 1:30-2am most everyone is in the play areas with dance floor looking pretty empty Around 3-4am people are generally leaving You can see there's quite a bit of overlap with these, and it also varies quite a bit from party to party. I'd say around 11pm is a good time to arrive, there will be some people here already and quite a few more will be arriving, you'll get to check out the play areas before they become strictly "undressed only" area (when some couples head to the play areas - usually around midnight or so - the play areas dress code is "underwear/lingerie and towels only"; earlier in the night you can check it out in your regular club clothes); you'll get to see a busy dance floor - and you also get to see the party transitioning more into the play areas.

DRESS CODE In the dance/lounge area it is common for guys to be in nice shirts and pants (please, no casual jeans! designer's jeans okay), and gals to be in sexy dresses or skirts. Generally - dress to impress, and, of course dress as sexy as you feel that night (sexier is better!). In the play areas, lingerie or towels is the dress code, so put on your sexiest underwear :-). We also have lockers available for you to undress. You can bring your own lock or get a key from us.

HOTELS For accommodations we recommend Hyatt Fisherman's Wharf at 555 North Point St (that's just 2 blocks away, and a great value with great reviews for a 4-star hotel). There's a great number of other hotels within a few blocks as well.