Heads up - I can be blunt and to the point. Games are for the younger generation.

Dead bedroom for over 10 years. I miss intimacy with a woman. The cravings, the yearning, the desire. The exploration, the fun. The companionship.

I'm not looking to change my situation just looking to get my needs met.

I'd prefer something steady, like once a week or more. There is too much risk with a one-nighter. However, I do realize that with my situation and whatever yours is, once a week may be an issue, and every two weeks, etc., works best.

Me: Late 40s. 5'11, 230lbs. Not fat, but not super fit either. I guess we're calling it a Dadbod nowadays. White/Latino - I look more white though. I can host but I am willing to travel. Usually available during the day. 9-4. Some nights.

As a warning, there will be times when I have to cancel plans at the last minute, or I may only be able to see you for an hour or two, or I may not be able to see you for a week or two.

Disease/Drug-free. Not 420-friendly. Sorry, nothing wrong with it, just not my thing. Sterile since birth, but more than willing to wear a raincoat. Non-judgmental. Likes to explore new things. I'm the guy you do things with that your husband/boyfriend used to or you're afraid they would judge you for.

You: Female. Of legal age. Any race. Although I'm partial to Latinas and Caucasians. Any size. Although I do prefer to be able to pick you up and playfully throw you around in bed. Disease/drug-free. Willingness to explore their kinks. Knows what they want and knows what this is.

If married - confident in their relationship but have unfulfilled needs or are in a true open relationship. No games. Knows and will honor the boundaries at all times and places. Good at OPSEC.

If single - know what they're getting into from the start. No games. Knows and will honor the boundaries at all times and places. Good at OPSEC.

Couples are cool but I'm not bi. I'm just comfortable enough in my sexuality to be around other naked men. No games. Knows and will honor the boundaries at all times and places. Good at OPSEC.

If interested send me a DM. Saying hi here is cool but a DM would be better. If you DM please send a little more than just a hi. Tell me about yourself.

Don't expect a pic right away. You don't have to include a pic if you don't want to.

There will be a vetting process to make sure we're both legit and not bots, scammers, etc.. meaning, I'm going to ask you questions specific to the area, Reddit, etc... before we get into an actual conversation.

Please keep in mind my situation, the need for confidentiality, and what this is. Subsequently, expect us to exchange a few messages for a while before the actual meet-up. Who knows, if we click it may happen sooner than later.

Yes, I fully expect to not get any legitimate responses to this other than scammers, bots, etc... but I like to be surprised.

Yes, I also expect to get some hate.