If you're looking for a real relationship, steer clear of any woman who's got a public Instagram.

Because it shows she’s desperate for any attention she can get.

posting every meal, every outfit, and every "natural" beach photo - with suspiciously good lighting, might I add.

What does that tell you?

She's not just looking for likes; she's practically begging for attention. It's like she needs the world's validation to feel good about herself.

Do you really want to date someone whose self-esteem is tied to Instagram likes?

Every comment, every heart, every follow is just another hit of validation for her. She's not looking for a partner; she's looking for an audience.

And let's be honest, if she's that open to public validation, she's probably not going to be satisfied with just your attention.

She's out there, throwing herself into the ring with every Tom, Dick, and Harry who thinks he's got a shot because he can see her latest bikini pic.

You think you're special? Nah, you're just another number in her notifications.

And trust me, the DMs she's getting are not from the cream of the crop. She's open to all kinds of low-tier advances, and that's not the kind of competition you want.

There's something to be said about keeping parts of your life private. If she's willing to share every personal detail with the world, what does that say about her judgment?

Privacy is sexy, and dignity is even sexier.

Public Instagram girls?

They've traded both for a fleeting moment of fame. And how much time does she spend curating her image, responding to comments, or doom-scrolling through other profiles?

That's time not spent with you, not building a real connection, not living in the moment. She's more committed to her online persona than to any real relationship.

So, if you're looking for someone genuine, someone who values a real connection over virtual applause, find someone whose Instagram is private, or better yet, someone who doesn't let social media run their life.

Because at the end of the day, you want a partner, not a public figure.

Choose wisely, or you'll be just another background character in her endless quest for validation.