People that have quality time and/or physical touch as their love languages are the only people that understand true love.

Their idea of love for you is you simply being there. Your presence as it is. You are enough by your touch or your time together. There is no demand for you to compromise or change

Gift giving, Acts of Service and Words of Affirmation require your partner to do something extra that they naturally wouldn’t be doing.

Now sure. A lot of these are nice. Maybe you should be doing a lot of these anyways but to make them the primary focus of your love sounds conditional to me

Requiring your partner to be something different than what they are. Your love is conditional unless they do x and y. Requiring them to say things they don’t naturally say or gift things they require extra effort.

That’s not love. That’s a job. That’s like doing a task simply because you know someone wants it.