People who tell me to do the most basic things such as having good hygiene, seeing women as human beings and talking to women in real life and getting female friends are only demonstrating that sex is so insultingly easy for them, that if they just do the most basic things, sex will be inevitable for them.

I understand that some unhinged incels don't do these basic things, and people love to focus on them and ignore the rest of sexless men, but what about the stereotype of the nice man who is in the friendzone? haven't these people seen those dudes who have female friends and are nice and likeable, but who are always in the friendzone or at the very least they can't attract women in a sexual way? Imagine being that man, imagine knowing that no matter how much you tried to have confidence and tell yourself that you're beautiful enough, because half of humanity, women, disagrees.

I don't know how some people learnt such a complicated thing as flirting, I don't know what book did they read or what flirting university they went to, I don't know if that information impossible to comprehend was pre-installed in their genes, maybe they genuinely belong to a different species, or maybe they don't know anything and they're just more attractive. Sexually active people live in a parallel universe, I wish I lived in their reality, I wish I lived in the universe of sexual abundance and romantic experiences, instead of living in the universe of the men that women classified as not good enough.

Each time I see people saying that my kind should shower, respect women and meet women in real life, I see them as people who come from a privileged social class and who live in a reality that is so different that any advice they give will lack perspective.