I don't know how popular or unpopular this opinion really is in real life? Media talks constantly about it being awful, But my go to fantasy is about is a guy who can barely touch himself without cumming, a guy who can barely experience any part of me without having to stop and take a breath. And I’m real life, every single time it happens my brain pushes my orgasm closer. A guy so full of lust and want that his body takes over and forces him into bliss. I can’t get enough. Something feels so good that your hips take over and crave more until you can't handle it? While I've always felt this way there were times in my younger years where I noticed this turned on part was accompanied with frustration, worries pleasure would be over, but since finding my voice and asking for things afterwards (fingering or assisted masturbation) I find I only experience pure turned on feelings with pre-ejaculation or quick finishes. When a guy lasts really long i think I get more in my head or more bored where the on edge orgasm of a partner keeps my head fully engaged in the hotness of the act?

Edited to add: Also adding that I was sort of using this as a sounding board to sort my own sexual preferences, I don’t often fantasize about my own experience but the experiences of others, (like mentioned above) maybe I’m avoiding my own sexual interests by getting the highs off of other peoples? Or maybe I just enjoy the high intensity of orgasm and want it the whole time? Even if that’s not really fair or best for the guy involved who’s fighting the urge to orgasm. That would maybe explain enjoying men masturbation compilations? Or just finishing compilations? 🤷🏻‍♀️ idk just thought I’d share my experience