After seeing plenty of examples on here of SPH occurring naturally on "chat-with-stranger" platforms, I thought that I too want a piece of that action. Omegle states clearly that you get banned for showing yourself though, and sure enough if you try it, you will be banned. There are ways around this, but there are far more men on this platform so the reward-to-effort is really low.

Alternatives such as Ome.tv and others showed some promise. Their rules include that all participants must be adults, don't state about bans and seem to allow this type of stuff. Sure enough, logging on you will see plenty of dick. Again though, finding a woman is a long slog. Your tiny boner will be long gone before you see anyone. This experience wasn't fun.

CooMeet showed up here several times, and offer a free tier (5mins I think), and you are guaranteed to match a woman. I'll come back to this, because before diving in I wanted to weigh up CooMeet against similar sites (pay-to-play basically).

I searched for anything in the same area that might be more kink-orientated. LuckyCrush was one option, and again you are sure to match a woman. But the prices per-minute compared to CooMeet turned me away.

Finally there is an option for CamSites like LiveJasmin. These I find less genuine, and don't get the same thrill of "this random lady thinks I'm kinda small". It's very much a transaction. If this is ok with you, stick to these options as you can easily pick the woman you want and see if she can fulfill the role you want.

I eventually stuck with CooMeet to test out live chatting, random women, and SPH. $5 for 10 minutes isn't bad for me, and the rates are better the more time you buy obviously. The sweet spot seems to be 60 minutes. I used a disposable Revolut card for payments in case of scams, but so far this seems very legit.

The Women here are split into about 50% Russian, 30% Hispanic and 20% is just "other". The website will live translate things for you though. I've found best results at SPH by staying on face-cam and asking a simple line like "Want to see a small penis?". Women react better to this, and gives them a chance to decline. You can also gauge how into it they are. Then switching to another USB camera pointed downwards, or at chair level. The Russian women generally seem to think I'm average (I'm just shy of 4inches/10cm) while Hispanic women appear more into the SPH scene. The age range here is roughly 25 to 50. Most of them in the middle of this range. Some girls will not show themselves nude unless you give them gifts (money/minutes that contribute to their own wallet) but are happy to look and laugh. Some go hard at "getting you off" as soon as the camera comes on, and shove their pussy in the camera. You can always skip as often as you like though, which I find helps when the conversation lulls and a woman has given as much SPH as she can muster.

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What have other people here been able to do? Has anyone else figured a system that works for them? I have of course paid for solo artists to do a video, but CooMeet has been really good for me in getting that "strangers honest feelings" vibe. I'm happy to put money into other systems too if anyone has a good suggestion