Idk perhaps I expect to much from people but, how could I not. If i hold my self up to a certain standard for the way i treat people. Why shouldn't i do the same to the people I'm around. Perhaps I need new people to surround myself with anyways on with my bitching. I guess I'll begin with saying that people are wayy too big of hypocrites and it's even worse that most of them dont seem to realize this. Now we all can be hypocrites i get that but, I've seen wayyyy to many people get pissy over something someone did then go on doing that same thing the next week without giving it a second thought. Like how can you judge people for doing exactly what you do. Like atleast acknowledge the fact that you're being a hypocrite and either not do that thing you expect others to do or stop getting mad when people do that thing.
Second thing is people have no fucking respect for others time. It's not cute or quirky when you consider being late to shit a personily trait. Like bruh we set up to meet at this time and not fucking an hour or 2 l later. It's not like theyll have a good excuse either. Like I couldve done something in that time frame that you made me wait but no i waisted it waiting for you. Just feels disrespectful like they dont give two shits about your time.
Another time waister persona are people who ask to hang out but, then sit on their phone half the time. Literally ignoring you.. like bruh why am i here I may as well be talking to a brick wall..for example me and one of my friends were watching a video and she just whips out her phone to watch another video like full volume.. like wtf are we even hanging out for. Or theyll come hang out and start falling asleep watching shit together. Like an hour in.. like I dont necessarily have a problem with it but dont make me clear my schedule for if you're gonna sleep within an hour. I won't even be mad if you just said " hey I'm imma go to bed" like theyll literally lie about not falling asleep... like bruh just go to bed..
Thirdly I am soooooo sick and tired of people saying. "Hey if you have an issue just let me know and we'll sort it out." Like when I personally say it myself I fuckung mean it. Otherwise I wouldn't say it but, when anyone else says that. As soon as I bring like the slightest issue to their attention and I would tell them the issue as politely as fucking possible. They instantly get defensive and either blame it on me or just say that's who they are so they wont change. Like so much for that then. Like fuck sakes man can people have some more respect. I dont ask for much.
Idk let me know in the comments if I should cut some of these people off cuz idk at this point. Also just to add I'm not a perfect person myself I have been a hypocrite before and I have gotten defensive before but I try to reflect on these things as much as possible and work on them but these people seem to make no effort to do so just becomes a repeated thing. Even after i mention these or call them out on it.
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