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I’m currently on a trip with my boyfriend. Yesterday, we were playing a silly truth or dare game and when he said dare I asked if he would let me see his phone. He got defensive but let me look through it. I’ve never looked through his phone and I’ve always respected his privacy. But something in my gut told me to look. I’m glad I did. Even though he deleted stuff, I knew how to recover deleted conversations. He’s been cheating. Not only has he been cheating but he’s been cheating while on this trip. I’ve paid for this entire trip. Hotel, excursions, food, drinks. How could he sit next to me and sext another woman?
Now I sit alone at a bar in a random city. I hate him so much that I’m actually numb. I feel so alone. Please someone say something comforting.
Congrats on the discovery because now he doesn’t have the option of wasting your time anymore! You’re going to hurt and then heal and then add more character to yourself and set your standard higher for yourself and be knowledgeable on signs before you let someone get the honor of loving you. Seriously, the best revenge is going to be is to cut him out completely and better yourself. Your happiness and non contact to him is going to stab his ego and heart and best thing is you have and will have done nothing wrong in all of this. Good for you for finding out now. And good for him for getting caught. If one has to hide or feel guilty about anything with their partner, one is simply not ready for a relationship, period.
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