Is it wrong to find my wife (been together 11 years, married less than one) hadn’t had intercourse with me for 8-9 days, and then I found a Plan B box in the trash? She swears on everything in life she didn’t have sex with anyone, but took it the same day and thought about it. So she swears she didn’t sleep with anyone, but thought about it so she bought a Plan B to take the day of, and then go fuck him.

Obviously there are many issues with this-and I’m devastated. But correct me here: Plan B only works after getting nutted in for up to 72 hours. It’s not something you take before having sex.

Also-pointing out-she was going to (or has) let some other dude nut inside?! Wtf.

Before you say it-I’m sure it’s tipping point now, so divorce is on my mind, however this is so far out of character for her, and we have a child.

She blocked the dude on social media. Doesn’t want to talk about it anymore. And is numb to feelings. Can’t show them to me