I think my biggest fear I have in relationships is knowing the risk of feeling like you were used for character development. Specifically inspiring & cultivating self growth in your partner, in yourself and as a couple in a relationship only for your partner to be a better version of themselves to another person post breakup.

It’s the feeling of being used and replaceable, like a placeholder to someone else who reaped the benefits of your renowned partner who you invested emotional focus and time in.

Toxic relationships obviously both parties will learn a lesson but in healthy ones where they simply didn’t work out its hard seeing the person who was a blessing in your life be a bigger blessing to someone else.