So I posted here about a year ago talking about my lack of a dating life. Now it just feels it has gotten worse. I’m 34 now and still haven’t had a date in years. I’ve tried every dating site like ok cupid, pof, match and apps like tinder, bumble, hinge and a more gamer oriented one called kippo. The only time I get matches or anything is just some one either trying to get more people for their only fans or a hooker.
I’ve tried asking for advice but get the usual run around of you seem to be trying to hard, trying to little, it’s a waiting game, life happens when you least expect it, just wait and it will come. I’ve heard this over and over since I was 18. Kind of why I'm posting here again, any time I try to really open up about this I just get those stock answers.
I’ve given up trying to talk to women in public since I've been told numerous times I just make them nervous, as I am almost 7 foot tall and a bigger guy. I also feel just being a guy, at least where I am, is the worse for dating. I can’t have preferences and such with out being told “well your standards are too high”. When I just like a shorter woman on the thin side who I can cuddle and play Pokemon with.

I still keep a good appearance, I'm hygienic, regular haircuts and all that.
I’m just still so tired of trying and so lonely. I gave up paying for apps/sites that don’t work. Tired of only matching with hookers look to get a profit out of me. Part of me just wants to take up those offers and pay them. At least I could be close to some one, even if I have to pay for it.