So I started “reverse catfishing”. Basically where on my dating profile I post my less flattering/no make up pictures. I messaged the guys I matched with for at least a few days to to sus out whether they actually were decent or not, and when I decided they met my standards, I meet up with them for a quick date. I’ve gone on dates with 3 different men so far. It was fun seeing their eyes light up when they saw me in person the first time all of them eventually admitted that they think I’m prettier than they were expecting. They all were incredibly sweet. 2 of them didn’t work out just for logistical reasons, but things are going amazingly with the 3rd. I never had any luck when I posted my most flattering pictures, most of the guys I talked to ended up being jerks lol. I don’t know how well this will work for men, but I’d recommend it for any of the ladies on the apps haha!