So I'm pretty sure this will get taken down cause being trans in very Controversial for some reason. And I'm not gonna argue over my life that doesn't affect anybody but me really. However I was getting all of my paperwork together to be able to have top surgery I didn't know if my surgeon was in network with my insurance but they would cover half of it no matter what so I was looking at only paying 5000-6000 all together and I had 2000 saved for the surgery however my mom had a stroke a while back and was out of work I didn't realize she wasn't paying the electric bill and we owed 2000 I gave her my savings cause you know electric is kinda more important but it just sucks having to start over and I wanna cry but I can't I feel so numb over it.