So recently she started to send me messages, 😆 before it was always me sending messages to her and she always disappeared during our conversations. At the beginning, I didn’t mind. I thought it’s cool, not a big deal, she is busy. But when the time goes by, I started to not like it, I think long time ago, my bf also complained about she didn’t reply messages when he texted in a group, (she is my bf s coworker wife and we are in dinner group together ), I even said to him, well babe it’s normal ,sometimes people can be busy and didn’t check the phone.

But recently I realized that I tried to make friend with her, I tried to send her messages, and share her stuff, she is a stay home mom, I just start working here. But somehow she will always disappear in our conversation and leave me nowhere, which causes me to get discomfort when she texts me again, like last time, she was gone in our conversation and never texted back until this Friday, it’s been already a week, of course I replied with politeness. I answered what she asked about me, but I lost enthusiasm towards making friend with her……. I don’t reply as fast as I used to do. But still I reply kindly and she left me again in the topic she started. My bf knew this and told me not to reply to her next time.

This morning she texted again asking if I am coming back home with my bf, I asked my bf what should I reply, he said he told them that I don’t have a close relationship with my parents . So I replied to her, we are going somewhere warm. Stuff like that, I get discomfort in texts with her cause I knew she will just disappear again and leave me in wonder. Lol. She is also saying that she prefers male friends okay, whatever you like, I need advice to process this.

Should I continue trying to make friends with her ? Or should I just treat her like a neighbor? Let it go? I don’t know why, when we meet, she seems like me, but when it’s online, she treats me really differently……. She even invited someone she hates for her wedding picture 😂I think she is really good at hiding ……