To begin this story we have to go all the way back to 2016. I met this girl, from here on out we will call her B, on reddit in a sub completely unrelated to findom and we ended up adding each other on snap. We chatted semi regularly and got along fairly well. After a few weeks of knowing B she randomly asked me if I could pay her phone bill for that month. We hadn't ever spoken about findom or kinks in general. Of course I jumped at the opportunity and enthusiastically sent her money immediately. She was very grateful but didn't mention it again afterwards, for the next few weeks we just continued chatting as per normal.

The following month I decided to ask B if I could pay her phone bill again. She was a bit confused at first and declined the offer saying that she has the money and that last month was just a one off situation. I insisted and it didn't take much convincing at all for B to agree to let me pay it again. After I sent her the money she thanked me to which I responded that it wasn't necessary to thank me. I think that it was at this point where she realised that she could kind of take advantage of me.

A week or two later she told me that her phone case was getting a bit worn out and that she wanted a new one. She didn't specifically ask me to buy her one but I got the feeling that she was throwing a line out to see how I would respond. I asked her if she had any in mind that she liked and very quickly she replied with 4 or 5 amazon links to phone cases, they were all rather cheap phone cases around the $20 mark. I asked B which one was her favourite to which she replied "I want all of them". I then told her that I would send her the money for them and she replied saying not to. Instead she gave me her address and told me to order them all and have them sent to her because it was easier for her. I did as I was told and even saved her address to my Amazon account for the future.

I sent her a screenshot of the order confirmation and this time she didn't thank me, she just responded with "ok cool" which turned me on so much. It was here that she asked me why I wanted to buy her things and not be thanked. I explained the concept of findom to her and she was understandably confused by it but didn't question it. After this interaction we continued chatting as per usual for a few months with B occasionally asking me to buy her things on Amazon or send her Amazon gift cards. One day she was telling me that her friends birthday was coming up and that she didn't have enough money to buy her a birthday present. She asked if I would mind buying the birthday present. I agreed and asked what she wanted to buy her friend. B sent me an Amazon link to a cat tree that cost around $300. Without even saying anything I purchased the cat tree and had it sent to her address.

Now I had expected B to just tell her friend that the cat tree was from her but B apparently told her friend about me and that I bought it for her. B's friend thought it was absolutely hilarious that B got some guy to buy her a $300 cat tree for her birthday and asked if B could get me to buy her more stuff. And this right here was the real turning point of the dynamic. B stopped seeing me as much of a friend and more of a source of money. To be clear, we didn't stop being friends but she knew that she could take whatever she wanted. B got the 3 of us in a Skype video call and they told me that they both wanted Amazon gift cards. I couldn't say no and immediately sent 2 amazon cards to Bs email. Once they had received the cards they ended the call and B messaged me telling me that it was fun.

Over the next few years the dynamic remained pretty much the same, B and I would chat/video call regularly and she would just tell me whenever her or one of her friends wanted money or something off amazon. For the past 2 years though the dynamic has been different. B and I rarely chat anymore but we have an unspoken understanding that whenever she messages me it will be because she wants money. It might be that she will talk to me every week or she won't speak to me for months at a time. I absolutely love it. It has evolved to the point where I literally only exist to her as a source of money and she knows that she can ignore me for as long as she likes and I will still be eager to send her whatever she wants when she does talk to me