I’ve been in a relationship for almost 3 years and i’m always struggling with lust. I love my girlfriend because I know she’s what i need not what i want because what i want is inherently bad and just lust and i can notice that at times but it’s gotten worse where i’ve started to lose feelings for her and talking to her feels like a chore now, I want to love her and i do but sometimes I look at other women and just forget absolutely everything. I know i would never cheat and never go far because My girlfriend is who I truly love and i know no one else will love me how she has and does. She has loved me from absolutely skinny to now really fat. I don’t know what’s wrong with me but i want to love her more I just have a disgusting mind that i allow lust to have control of sometimes she doesn’t have the lustful body that my mind desires and i think that’s the problem. I just wanted to come and ask what are some good ways to deal with a lustful mind and really change for the better.