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Sex work out of desperation
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I was in a very abusive situation with my family. After getting a bad head injury from a physical assault I decided I need to get out of it. I am emotionally a wreck and not okay. I've been looking for employment for a year with no luck. I am getting very desperate and I hate myself for this but I'm considering doing sex work out of desperation because I don't know what else to do. I've had friends recommend it as well to me. Can you please pray for me because this isn't the route I want to go on. I just truly hate myself and my life at the moment. I want to give up entirely. I'm trying to trust God but it is impossible to. I've reached out to so many people and places for help and gotten nothing.

EDIT: I did not realize what a huge response this would get. I posted this earlier when my mind was in a very horrible state. I really appreciate everyone reaching out. I have very little contact with people these days so I get lost in my thoughts and fears so hearing other perspectives on my situation and people motivating me not to give up helped a lot. I appreciate everyone who messaged asking to donate money. I don't want to take advantage of anyone and want to exhaust all options including churches and social services. Please keep me in your prayers as I've been close to giving up this year. I wasn't close enough to God for many years and ended up in toxic cycles of abuse which led me back to living with the source of that cycle so I need to fight to get out and have a lot to work through so I don't return to this situation ever again. I'll try my best to reply to everyone. God bless you all. Thank you and I pray for everyone whose been in a situation and give thanks to God for your support and encouragement.

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T try putting Walmart, Kroger, McDonalds, Wendy’s etc high traffic places try at will make the manager want to work you to the bone without them feeling inferior to you.

But then also, at least in my city, jobs pretend to be hiring to get tax breaks from Covid and to get off on wasting peoples time so it could be that the job market where you are is too full.

Also tell your therapist about what you’ve been thinking! They’ll give u way more insight than me. And ask ur psych for a new medication that will tackle racing thoughts better.

Finally, ask the Holy Spirit to move in your life and when you pray, pray for a sound mind. I went to a new charismatic church and they prayed for me and I haven’t been the same since (in a good way)

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Try taking references off, the managers might be feeling pressured to actually do their jobs for once and getting mad at u.

But try saying you worked at Kroger/walmart as a stocker, worked at a small family owned Asian grocery store etc etc using other entry level work to get a foot in a job.

Also look into telehealth to get treated for anxiety(suggestion)

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It seems like you’re too honest for entry level jobs. Do what everyone does and tell them what they want to hear: you have a car, high school diploma, ur last job was 7 jobs, and u left ur old job because of schedule issues

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The wages for sin is death, so when you enter sex work and allow sexual immorality into your life, of course you will be abused. Spiritually, you’re asking for a bad time.

Remember our fight isn’t against flesh and blood but spirits and principalities in high places. The enemy is itching to get in through an open door. He’s the great accuser who’s constantly at the throne of God bearing false witness against us.

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Don’t tell them you have a masters. Its just fast food

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What do you think sex work is? Having sex with random men ONLY because of money. Doesn’t matter how handsome, clean, or fit they are. That’s pretty much rape in and of itself. You’re only consenting because of poorness.

Sex workers have their stories all over social media look up what happens to them and ask yourself if a woman of God should willingly be in that situation.

If you put yourself in a place to be raped, killed, kidnapped, gang banged, molested, and given std’s, do not blame God.

Is the deity of Christ a joke to you? He says in his word that he’ll provide. Don’t listen to the enemy telling you that sec work is the only way. Jesus came and died for us to make the impossible possible so have some faith.

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God is greater than humans and looks past superficiality, he looks straight at the heart. Your argument only makes sense in human terms, not God’s. We will all have an account.

The word tells us that his people perish for a lack of knowledge, from op’s comments they didn’t know that God tells us to give him all our worries so that he can work miracles in our lives.

Set yourself apart from the world and give advice Jesus would give to a lost sheep.

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