Howdy Y'all,

We have some updates to share regarding community rules and requests for admin support. These changes are designed to improve your experience and foster more engaging and relevant discussions. Here’s what’s new:

18

Rules have been modified to reflect that this is a 18 sub (a change from 21 ). This change will bring the sub in line with the rest of reddit, is overall just less confusing for users, and has the added benefit of including college tales, where a lot of users may have 'found themselves' sexually.

Post Quality

You'll start to see a greater emphasis on post quality moving forward. What does that mean? Filtering for length (less than 200 words is not a 'story'), punctuation, paragraph breaks, etc. The end goal being to ensure a pleasurable reading experience that brings our valued readers back.

Respect

A quick reminder of Rule #6 (Respect that others’ experience is likely different from your own). I pretty regularly run into comments from users questioning the validity of other users' submissions, often suggesting their story is pure fantasy, and could not possibly be within the realm of probability for a sexy encounter. We do our best to filter out obvious fiction. When feasible for example, we'll message users for details and try to track users suspected of fiction across posts, ultimately banning them if a pattern is established.

Frankly though, these fictional posts are a lot less common than you'd think. And often, the users complaining have an average total of ZERO post submissions to the sub themselves... and yet a trail of harassing and whiney comments as their only contribution.

If you believe a story to be fictional, please feel free to report it (we encourage it, even). However, I'd ask that you grant other users some grace in the comment section, as there's a wide spectrum of sexuality, sexual experience, and writing/English proficiency here.

Mods Needed

We're looking to add 1-2 mods to help manage the sub. For those that enjoy this space, modding is a great way to give back to the community and help keep it special. If you're interested, feel free to either send me a DM or use the Mod Mail feature detailing the following:

1. Why you're interested in being a mod
2. Your favorite part of this sub
3. Your least favorite part of this sub
4. Any ideas you have for improving the sub

TL:DR

1. Change from 21 to 18 posts being permitted.
2. Mods will focus on quality over quantity for a better reading experience.
3. Just because you're not having wild sex, doesn't mean others aren't.
4. We need mods. Throw in your hat if you give a damn, or otherwise forever hold your complaints about the direction of the sub. Complaints w/o Contribution = Worthless Noise

We believe these changes will enhance the quality of our community interactions and keep this sub a place worth reading. As always, your feedback is invaluable, so please let us know if you have any suggestions or questions.

Thank you for being a part of our subreddit and for your continued support!

Best, The Mod Team