I get messages all the time saying how great it much be having a huge dick. I will say it doesn’t suck, but it’s not what most guys think.
To start I was always an awkward dorky kid. Never had any real self confidence. Girls would often tell me I wasn’t a guy they wouldn’t out with in high school. College wasn’t better. I lost my Virginity after high school at a party. It was awkward. The next weekend that same girl and another girl had a 3 some with me. That was more awkward but was also fun and a good story. College was a tough time. I would meet girls and sometimes they would say they wouldn’t want to have sex for whatever reason. Some tried and couldn’t make it work. My first gf wasn’t until my last year of college., but We didn’t date long because I wasn’t the type of guy she wanted to end up with. But she had no problem calling me for booty calls.
When meeting new girls sometime they would see I had a big dick then assume i would be bad in bed. Probably 30% they wouldn’t want sex anymore and we would do oral instead. Sometime she would offer oral and decline me going down on her. I happened to be halfway decent at oral (from what im told) so sometimes that would change their mind but rarely.
Of those left, probably another 20% or so wouldn’t be able to take it without too much pain and we would stop early. Of course, I have learned over the years about how to properly get a girl turned on enough to try. I found girls that don’t run away on sight can usually fit. Then those that do take it usually are sore after for a day or two, even my wife sometimes will still be sore if we go too hard.
I have had a few girls I really liked not want to do anything because they thought it would hurt too much. One woman who was my kids friends mom (recently divorced) wouldn’t even date me because she didn’t want the stigma of dating a guy with a big dick. I told her it didn’t matter and no one would have to know but apparently people in that crowd already knew because it showed sometimes. In the end it was fine because all the rejection made me not want a divorce anymore and my wife and I realized what our problems were and worked to correct them.

So having a big dick had it advantage, but just as many disadvantages come with it.