My cousin has been going to this one gym, so I decided to join him as I have to keep my shape up. So we walk in, and since he’s a regular here, he knows some folk. He says hi to this one big beefy dude and they chitchat a little while I was just warming up. The guy introduced himself to me as Peter, and we chatted a little bit, he complimented my from and my knowledge of German (for reference I’m at least a C1, but german is hard so I sometimes speak it very roughly). Anyway, we get to exercise, and I shove my airpods in my ears. And since I’m hard of hearing on my left ear, my left airpod is adjusted to be slightly louder (so I have some balance in both ears. I don’t really have a gym playlist. I just play my playlist which has everything in it. From Suicideboys, to lil darkie to Deftones. At this particular set I was going very hard and the guy jokingly asked if the music got me going. I laughed showing him I was listening to Total Eclipse of the heart. And he said “wow you like it up the ass?” I laughed at it and just said “Sometimes yeah” and I continued with my set. My cousin and I finished and went to the showers. After we got out, we were talking about some random topic while walking to our stuff in the lockers. Peter was there. I paid no mind to him as I removed my towel. I just noticed him staring at my junk. Now, I think its worth mentioning that this guy’s in his mid thirties. As I grab a pair of underwear from my backpack he comes closer to me and he says how he’s never seen a white cut guy. I look at him with a puzzled look and asked him why has he seen a cut man of color. He said it’s because there are a lot of immigrants in Germany, I chuckled and I asked “No, I mean why do you stare at their dicks?” He grew red in his chick and just said “shame you like it up the ass with that dick” I just nodded at him and turned back to my cousin who was confused on the guy’s behavior as he’s never been like this before. We found out a second later that it was all a major insecurity of his as he himself had a lil peanut of a penis. And I for a second glanced at his lock Screen and he had that alpha male shit on his lock screen. So I guess small penises and a fragile masculinity don’t mix well when you meet someone big and comfortable in their own skin