I (30M) am currently making plans to go on vacation to Key West in the latter half of October to attend Fantasy Fest. Originally, I was planning to split a place with a lady friend and a swinger couple (48M 45F), then we were going to head up to Secrets Hideaway for the last weekend of October. However, it looks like my lady friend might have to back out, and so I would like to find another lady friend to join me instead.

The ideal lady friend is open-minded (shyness will not do well for this vacation), willing to have a good time, has a clean bill of sexual health (I get regular std checks myself), likes to dance, and loves wild parties. Being between the ages of 25-40 is also a big plus, but it's not a dealbreaker to be outside that range if you have other great qualities. There is no pressure nor any expectations of anything, but we will likely be sharing be a bed as that was the original set up. Ideally we can meet and get together before then, but I have met and bunked (platonically) with random lady friends before with no issues. If splitting a bed is an issue, then we might not be a good fit.

The couple is planning to rent the place from Oct 20th to Oct 25th. I will be flying into Miami, FL on the evening of the 20th and coming down to Key West on either the 21st or the 22nd, where I will join up with the couple for the rest of the stay. After checking out on the 25th, we were thinking of heading up to Secrets Hideaway in Kissimmee for the last weekend of October (25, 26, 27).

On the rental place, we were planning to split the cost evenly and it was looking to be around $90-$100 a night per person. If helping pay for that is a problem for you, we are definitely not a good fit. If we have met beforehand and established the basest of a relationship, I don't mind helping out friends, but if we haven't met yet, I would prefer you be able to pay for your part.

If you think you fit the criteria and would like the chance to enjoy a wild mardi gras-esque festival with fun people, please reach out ASAP so we can start making plans.

Cheers, Ricky Valentine