So i made a post on this subreddit a few weeks back about whether or not i should give up on dating and people on here basically said keep trying, so i did. However, manythings have happened to the point i'm sick of it... Between dropped convos, downvotes, getting ghosted and blocked for no reason, constantly getting DMed by men and in one instance, getting outright tricked...

Now a bit about what i've been looking for, for a bit of context. I've been looking to get into a relationship with a cis woman (I know i'm narrowing my field greatly) and yes i know i'm also Trans Lesbian but i wanted to try something different then dating a trans woman. As of right now most of my dating posts have been downvoted to 0. Now i get not everybody are attracted to trans women and that's fine by why the downvotes? My posts haven't got anything in that would piss people off i don't feel. Now for one particular subreddit and this might be incorrect but considering the fact its for lesbians and there has been some rants on there before about this, that cis women down vote trans womens posts on there and the fact as soon as i posted it was downvoted to 0 instantly... But on the other hand its happened on severeal subreddits so what do i know?

Now the next thing i'm going to talk about is the thing that nearly broke me. So a just over a week ago a girl that we'll call "K" DMed me seem very interested in me and we really hit it off to the point we were in voice call together on discord the same day. And for my part, i really felt a connection with K and we were planning her trip down to me and having long talks and watching movies and everything right? It was going great! But then the day before K was supposed to come down, she unfriended me on everything and then blocked me on everything... Was it all just some big trick to get my hopes up and then dash them? Or did she panic? If its the latter, why didn't she tell me, it makes no sense..? And if its the former, what did K get out of it? I never said, did or sent anything that she could use against me, she got nothing out of it but dashing my hopes. But maybe that was all she wanted...

And the amount of dropped convos my god! Like i get it if things don't click but at least say it isn't working for you! Instead of leaving my fucking hanging! Its just rude and impolite! And men getting in contact despite the fact i'm not looking for them and states in my posts i'm not looking for them! Oh and this morning another good prospect cut things off we me this morning just because i smoke, even though i put it in my post and the fact that i'm quitting this year and i mentioned that i wouldn't smoke around them but no they cut things off anyway.

So yeah pretty fed up and pissed off but i'll keep grinding as what else can i do you know?