Hey everyone. Just needed some advice on a small issue I’m having. I’m 4 months post op and last night my boyfriend and I finally decided to have penetrative sex for the fist time since I’ve had surgery. No matter what angle or position I was in, his dick just wouldn’t go in.

Since having surgery, I’ve dilated according to my doctors recommendations. There are some days where I’ll miss a session but make it up the next time I do it. My depth is fine and my boyfriend is roughly the same size as the dilator I use.

Has anyone else had this issue? It makes me so upset because the one moment I’ve been waiting for was a disaster because I couldn’t get him inside of me. I have a doctors appointment on Wednesday to see if my surgeon can see what’s going on but if anyone has any advice, I’d greatly appreciate it.

Sex has been the one thing I’ve truly been anticipating and I don’t want the one surgery I’ve been waiting for my whole life to go to waste!

Thanks in advance!