This is probably a long shot (and far too long a post) but I'm throwing it out there and hoping I can strike a chord with someone. I'm a 40 year old transguy who's not long figured out my gender identity, (pre-everything, but looking at my options) and with that has come the realisation that I'm attracted to guys for the first time in..... Well, for the first time this century.

I'm looking for a guy who's willing to look past this wrong body and see the man within (as clichéd as that may sound) and help me explore these new feelings and desires, and hopefully form a lasting connection.

I'm fairly new to kink, so I'm still working out my likes and limits (I may be a complete work in progress right now!!) but I have a special fascination with bondage, impact and sensation play (from both sides of the equation), I like to tease and be teased, and I have a definite primal side. From a D/s perspective I switch, but I'm very keen to explore my dominant side right now.

A little about me: I'm 40, a short guy (5'2"), about 135lbs, blue eyes, buzzed blond hair, tattoos. I'm a chef, I do relief work so I can explore the UK (specifically Scotland right now) while I'm getting ready to go travelling- which I plan to do by the end of next year. In my downtime I walk as much as possible; along a shore, through a forest, over the hills and far away. My big passions are nature, photography, travel and music. I've a feeling I'm going to end up a gym junkie until I have the physique I want, but first I have to actually start working on that.

I love sci fi and fantasy, but get stuck reading and watching the same old stuff over and over (star trek, wheel of time mostly). If you can turn me on to something new (to me) I'll be eternally grateful!!

About you.... Please be over 25, I think any more of an age gap than that would make it difficult to make a connection. Physically I'm not too fussy, or I haven't found "a type" yet. Nice eyes and a cheeky grin count for a lot in my book. You don't have to share my passions, just be happy to let me ramble on about them on occasion, and I will be happy to watch your eyes twinkle when you wax lyrical about yours.

I'm just as open to a fwb type situation as I am a relationship. Whilst I'm based in Scotland right now, I plan on starting my "never-ending world tour" in the USA next year. I'm one hundred percent willing to make long distance work for the right guy.

If anything has sparked your interest, hit me up on chat or dm.