Introduction

Hello. Please read through the whole post before responding.

I put 4A in the title because it's shorter than "anyone but cis men" but I'm not looking for cis men. If you are a cis man, PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME. I am happy with cis women and trans people.

About me

Generation Information: I am a trans man and am a college student studying mathematics. I am also Arab, chubby, short, non-truscum, disabled, and left wing (but not tankie). If any of those things are an issue then please leave. I am also not interested in people who fetishize any of the above. Feel free to ask if you have any other questions about me :) (Also, I am more of a bottom than a submissive. Irl I can top but not online)

Medical transition: I have had a hysterectomy but no other surgeries as of yet. I have been on T for around 3 years. I view both my sex and gender as male. Sex is typically a combination of hormones, gonads, primary sex characteristics, secondary sex characteristics, and chromosomes. I have male hormones and secondary sex characteristics, don't know my chromosomes, and have no gonads. I acknowledge that I'm afab but I view my current sex as male and would expect you to as well. I refer to other people's sex as how they would like me to prefer to it.

My parts: In this paragraph I will explain what I call my genitals using some unavoidable anatomical terms. I refer to my erectile tissue as my penis/cock/dick/etc, clitoral hood as foreskin. I refer to my labia as my balls, scrotum, etc. My g-spot is my prostate. The outside of my front hole is just my taint, and I refer to the inside as the inside of my taint. My wetness is precum pre-orgasm and just cum or ejaculatory fluid or sem post-orgasm.

What I'm looking for

I'm looking for someone who can instruct me about how I should masturbate on camera or over the phone. This would include telling me how long to touch myself and how to edge and when I can orgasm. It can also include how deep or fast to fuck my taint with a dildo or how I should touch my chest if I am in the mood for that at the time. I am also fine with blowing a dildo.

I would also be interested in having someone make me watch porn/read erotica that they send me and report back to them about it in some way. Whether that's writing about how it made me feel or taking a picture of my post-orgasm penis after jerking off to it or simply talking about it or watching it while having sex over phone/video.

Certain other things I'd be interested in would be being instructed to sleep with a dildo inside me on certain nights and stuff like that, but this may be more limited as I'm taking summer classes and have to pay attention to them. I am also living with my parents during the summer.

Anal is a hard limit until I get to know someone very well. I like being humiliated but being degraded isn't usually okay with me. I don't want to be insulted, but I'm fine with things like "wow, you're really desperate to cum aren't you, why don't you beg me"

Do not feminize me. Do not disrespect my gender and the way I view myself. Do not put me down for my ethnicity, disability, or body. Do not compare my body to anyone else's. If you're going to tell me to penetrate myself or do stuff with my chest then make double check that I am okay with doing that.

I don't expect anyone to want to all of the above, but if you're interested in at least some of it then please do contact me.

I will likely first want to do things over phone call or text before using video or sharing any nsfw pics/videos with my face in them.

How to contact me

To everyone: Please contact me through kik (with same username as here, ftmseekinghumanbeing) (reddit is also fine but it will be much slower). I will require two face pics. One including a blank piece of paper and one with the same paper but your first name written on it. I will also require a picture of an id that can have everything crossed out besides your face, legal sex, and year of birth. When you contact me, please tell me your gender, your pronouns, and your sexual orientation. I am happy to also do all of the above. HAVING SIGNAL ENCRYPTION IS A MAJOR BONUS

To cis women: Please do not contact me unless you're also attracted to cis men.

To all trans people: If your picture id says "M" on it then please also send me a picture of an hrt prescription with enough information not crossed out so I can tell it's not a stolen picture from online. Please include at the very least the date of prescription and the city of the prescription. Please also write your name on the prescription. Sending me a picture of your body also would probably work but I don't expect people to show anything other than their face too a stranger without first getting to know said stranger. I realize that this unfairly prevents trans people who have never been on hrt but I've had cis men in the past pretend to be trans women and I don't know of another way around this. If you are not on hrt but have extensive posting on trans subs then I may accept.

To trans feminine people in particular**: (cw for this paragraph: sexual assault)** I'm going to use typical anatomical terms to say this. Seeing amab genital tissue ejaculate or leak pre cum is a rape flashback trigger for me. If you are still producing any then it likely wouldn't be possible for me to see your genitals.

To trans masculine people in particular: I am heterosexual. I've only had sex with a couple trans guys and for both of them I didn't have sex with the prerequisite of me being attracted to them, it was more of "friendship sex" or them topping me with a power dynamic in play. I still view trans men as men, so I'm not attracted to them, but I think the idea of being beneath another trans masc person is hot. This probably won't make a difference in regards to what we do, but I figured it was important to explain my sexual orientation and why I'm not interested in cis men but still okay with trans masc people.

If you have any questions don't hesitate to ask